Hello EB readers this week on Relationships , we would be discussing reasons why most ladies are single these days. The sad part is that its not just the young ones o. ! I’m specifically referring to the older ones who are getting older and are missing out on the most important part of a ladies life =”Getting Married”.
Have you sat down to check yourself ?? Some may even take it to a spiritual level which of course is not a bad idea at all. Some may be blaming innocent people for their predicament.
In our present days , we have lots of middle aged ladies who are yet to get married and all.
Have you checked yourself. Checkout the following reasons I would give and make a complete assessment of yourself.
1. Manner Deficiency :
Your Hot , pretty girl looks would not win Mr right when you lack character , manners and Good home upbringing.
Its no more just the outer beauty that matters. Just stop the nagging , being possessive , challenging with men in negative ways.
2.Wrong Packaging :
As the saying goes , the way you dress is the way you are addressed. When you have the wrong packaging you attract the wrong Men.
Sure we can say Looking good is cool. Some women in attempt to look appealing have derailed from modesty. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively showing lot of skin and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn’t like to be associated with, be careful.
3. Wrong Dating Principle :
Some ladies when dating , they act and behave as wives instead of the girlfriend they are. When you have given your all to a guy , most of them would get tired and leave.
You should know that you have not been taken to the altar so you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost.
Do you want to remain his girlfriend for life ???
So please cut down such privileges which include and not limited to: constant s*x and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc.
4.Running from House chores:
Of recent , many ladies now dislike cooking and home chore due to excessive exposure to modern media. Media now shows some Men playing the role of a woman. My friend do not be deceived o.
A good home is not just by beauty. how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?
5. Bad Friends. :
Letting your friends choose the man they want you to be with can be deadly. You might not take this serious but you should know that making such decisions is solely yours but they could drop in their advice.
Do not loose your Man because one of your friends says she doesn’t approve. Some might be jealousy in progress.
Ok this is where I have to stop but if you have more points that could help or if you have any questions and advice , do not hesitate to drop them below in the comments box.
See you next week on RELATIONSHIP CORNER
Yours Truly Evatese