I am dedicating this post to all ladies who have gotten their hearts broken one time or the other and to the ladies who have been jilted. read the post with all diligence


well, its going to be very hard to avoid these kinda guys totally. like someone said, that if you are lady and you looking for a guy without all these then call JESUS. i had a big laugh then.it was funny to be and i had a real deep thought on that and discovered that its true.
No man is perfect but we ladies have met the wrong kind of guys and we looking for the perfect choice. but in all the search and sieving of guys that come across our ways we should be wise in that. according to some random survey , 99.9 % of guys have these characteristics so only 0.01% are perfect, now where are they?

so let us discuss and reason together on the following kind of guys.

1. The Control Freak
Many women have had their lives turned upside down by a control freak. He has an overwhelming desire to control every detail, even when it’s out of his hands—be it the weather, traffic or your life. sincerely speaking most women like a guy that is manly, but manly isn’t the same as domineering. this kind of guys is addicted to control and being in command. they don’t believe a woman has a say in anything. Before you know it, you soon start to lose your identity and become a creation of his. That isn’t love; it’s a dysfunction and you need to believe it. so ladies BEWARE.

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2. The Abuser
A control freak will almost always become an abuser, but not all abusers start out as control freaks. In fact, abusers are usually nice guys until their anger kicks in. this kind of guy has a very bad temper be it hot or short temper. How many times have we heard an abused woman say, “He’s not like that o. It’s only when he’s angry that he lashes out”? If a guy belittles you, tells you you’re worthless, or insults you, that is abuse. If he forces you to do things you’re not comfortable with, that’s abuse. It may initially look like a temper issue, but physical abuse soon follows, and no woman deserves that. Do not date an abusive man—no matter how alternately nice he is. this kind of abuse can also lead to rape. so ladies BEWARE.

3. The immature man.
He doesn’t have to be younger that you are as many women assume that men younger than them are automatically immature. He could be much older but his brain is stuck in adolescence, thinking like a 13-year-old and always craving your validation. Being in a relationship with this man will always leave you drained, because it’s feels like you’re raising a child.ver terrible experience, trust me

4. The Ghost.
You see him only when he wants to be seen. One minute he’s doting on you and everything peach; the next, poof! He vanishes and you can’t reach him by phone, text, BBM, mail, tweet— nothing! He’s not dead; he simply does not want to be reached. This is 2012—there’s a way to stay in touch if you want to. Forget his elaborate explanation when he does reappear, all na wash. He definitely has another life that he doesn’t want you to be part of.

5. The Unambitious.
If a guy cannot say what his goal in life is, strike his name off the list. Waiting for his grandfather’s will is not an ambition, neither is playing the visa lottery every year. The country is hard, but that doesn’t mean we cannot have workable dreams, no matter how nascent. this kind of guy depend on his family or fathers wealth(inheritance).

6. Mr money.
All he has is money. Not character, finesse, values or even an education. Just money. Unfortunately as women very well know, money isn’t everything; this guy can buy you fine things but he can’t treat you with sensitivity. because he has money in abundance ladies , especially our Nigerian ladies wont mind at all so far the money keeps flowing in. so ladies don’t be deceived with a guy like this you maybe heading to your water-loo. so ladies BEWARE!!!

7. The Fairy-tale prince.
this is the kind of guy every lady wants to spend the rest of her life with. Everything you ever prayed for, even things thatyou know yourself are unrealistic; this guy has it all. He’s handsome caring, attentive, charming, well dressed, tasteful, generous—in short, he’s flawless. You feel he’s too good to be true and he probably is. All men have flaws, but this man doesn’t have any? It’s all an act. he is just doing that to get you and once he succeeds in that ,Once he’s had his fill of you, the charade stops then you start seeing his true self. To him it’s a game and he enjoys the thrill of the chase, the delightful deceit and the abrupt end. Nobody said men were emotional creatures but some do and relish the chance to practice their adroitness. this kind of guy can be called a player.

8. The Guy who just doesn’t want you.
There are guys whom you like and no matter how you try, they simply don’t want YOU. They could be taken, gay or blind. Rejection hurts, but it’s part of life. Move on. While you still have your dignity, in God’s name, move on.